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Looking Forward to a Memory

by The BoKays

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    Full of tunes, art by Fin, more stories, in one handy little silver disc that you can hold in your hand and play in the car or use to frighten the deer out of the garden. "Limited Edition" because we only made 300!

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1.
Lyrics: Come on come on come on Camilla I wanna show you my pet gorilla Come on come on come on Camilly All I wanna do is dance Free Willy with you When I was young my mother smothered me with love And that’s the reason for my rage I had to beat my father at cribbage every night When I won that crib, I got this cage…. So Come on come on come on Camilla I wanna show you my pet gorilla Come on come on come on Camilly All I wanna do is dance Free Willy with you William Shakespeare managed to sublimate his drive He kept his pencil in his hand Winning at cribbage taught me control: How 2 be th first post in th last hole Now all I wanna do is de-flora, de-fauna de land so So Come on come on whatever your name is Shaking this spear will be making us famous O -C –A- M- I- L- L- E Camill Camille camilla camelly It’s the rhythm of love and they just can’t wean us I got a new dance called the Merchant of Venus Come on come on come on Camilla! Come on come on come on Camilla! Come on come on come on Camilla!
2.
Fishing Song 02:56
Lyrics: Going down the road in the back of a ford with a girlfriend in the back seat My very best friend was driving us when my girl took her shoes off her feet And we all went wooooo We all did diddle all day Turn yourself around laugh it all down and we all did diddle all day. Get the fishing pole found the fishing hole, friend put his line in the stream girl on the bank put her foot in the water fish jumped and she started to scream Get the bread and wine frm the basket yea Gonna eat it raw some body joked Lordy what a line no need to ask it that fish is already smoked…
3.
Lyrics: Last night I dreampt sweet Aphrodite Was in my bed without her nightie Considering the hour, it was normal I myself was dressed informal And all my strength and vain composure Crumbled before such fair exposure One smile could seduce the most chaste lamas Not to mention lack of said pajamas I knew that I’d succumb to such fair cupid After all I might be dumb, but im not stupid Before her eyes the poets stammer Even Diogenes was enamoured When she showed me a rose of a special genus Only grows ‘neath the mountains of venus Last night I dreampt sweet Aphrodite Was in my bed without her nightie This morning I awoke and to my consternation It was all just a frigment of my imagination A counterfeit libation- A frigment of my imagination
4.
O! My aged Uncle Arly! Sitting on a heap of Barley Thro' the silent hours of night,-- Close beside a leafy thicket:-- On his nose there was a Cricket,-- In his hat a Railway-Ticket;-- (But his shoes were far too tight.) Long ago, in youth, he squander'd All his goods away, and wander'd To the Tiniskoop-hills afar. There on golden sunsets blazing, Every morning found him gazing,-- Singing -- "Orb! you're quite amazing! How I wonder what you are!" Like the ancient Medes and Persians, Always by his own exertions He subsisted on those hills;-- Whiles, -- by teaching children spelling,-- Or at times by merely yelling,-- Or at intervals by selling "Propter's Nicodemus Pills." Later, in his morning rambles He perceived the moving brambles-- Something square and white disclose;-- "Twas a First-class Railway Ticket; But, on stooping down to pick it Off the ground, -- a pea-green Cricket settled on my uncle's Nose. Never -- never more, -- Oh! never, Did that Cricket leave him ever,-- Morning or evening, noon or night;-- Clinging as a constant treasure,-- Chirping with a cheerious measure,-- Wholly to my uncle's pleasure (Though his shoes were far too tight.) On a little heap of Barley Died my aged uncle Arly, And we buried him that night;-- Close beside the leafy thicket;-- There, -- his hat and Railway-Ticket;-- There, -- his ever-faithful Cricket;-- (But his shoes were far too tight.)
5.
lyrics: Love passes by like wind through the lilacs Like birdsong through cotton, like dust through the trees We reach out for love hoping we’re not forgotten With our own special gift and our own special need Our fathers and mothers, our sisters and brothers Are building a boat from a basket of reeds On the river of life, there’s 2 oars keep us moving Our own special gift and our own special need Love takes our hand and walks us through wonder Shows us sweet sorrow, brings us to our knees Just like yesterday was once a tomorrow, some too old to say thank you, some too young to say please Our fathers and mothers, our sisters and brothers Are building a boat from a basket of reeds On the river of life, there’s 2 oars keep us moving Our own special gift and our own special need
6.
lyrics the day may come when I’m too old to Kiss you When I’m too weak to hold you in my arms hey hey hey, believe me when I say…. When I was young I had a big dream That whenever I wanted, there’d be peaches and cream Where-ever I went it was always downstream It’s earlier than you think, things are better than they seem Now I’m too old to be so glib But I know the difference ‘tween a lie and a fib Though I’m too old to sleep in a crib But the days are coming back when I’m gonna need a bib And the day may come when I’m too old to Kiss you When I’m too weak to hold you in my arms hey hey hey believe me when I say, ay ay you’re never too old never too old never too old to love you’re never too old never too old never too old to love hey hey, believe me when I say…. When I was young I had a world view that went out through my nose, nothing past it getting through I thought I was immortal, I was only 22 How was I know to know it was actually true? And the day may come when I’m too old to Kiss you When I’m too weak to rock you in my arms hey hey hey believe me when I say, ay ay you’re never too old never too old never too old to love you’re never too old never too old never too old to love hey hey, believe me when I say….
7.
Pull Me Up 03:14
pull me up to heaven if you get there first grab my heart and pull it up before it bursts pull me up to heaven if you get there first pull me up and fill my cup cause I probably died of thirst pull me up to heaven if you see me running late just tell St. Peter to go check his meter and finesse me through that gate pull me up to heaven if you get there first pull me up and fill my cup cause I probably died of thirst I've got a thirst for compassion I've got a thirst for the truth I've got a thirst but it just gets worse in this world of tooth for tooth pull me up to heaven if you see me slipping down just tell Satan to keep on waiting some friends of mine want to see me uptown pull me up to heaven if you get there first pull me up and fill my cup cause I probably died of thirst I've got a thirst for compassion I've got a thirst for the truth I've got a thirst but it just gets worse in this world of tooth for tooth grab my heart and pull me up I need a drink from your loving cup
8.
I had a great dream from heaven last night all of God's children were happy and bright all of God's children walked in the light in a great dream from heaven last night every voice was heard when it cried and every teardrop was counted and dried every heart glowed from inside in a great dream from heaven last night
9.
if life was always black and white I'd turn on the light and it would be okay but looking out on this twilight world full of tie dyed swirl I don't know what to say just remember silence is a virtue and when you hit the bottom that's where you find your wings and it's a devil's song that the angel sings and i love you darling cause you do all the right wrong things it's complicated ya I know but it just goes to show you never know what's true everybody'd like to follow something they'd like to swallow something but they don't like to chew just remember ... and none of us will be released not by magic and not by a preist and even so with our myopic vision we paint colours in the darkness of an unknown mission if life was always black and white... just remember..
10.
The Pobble who has no toes Had once as many as we; When they said, 'Some day you may lose them all;'-- He replied, -- 'Fish fiddle de-dee!' And his Aunt Jobiska made him drink, Lavender water tinged with pink, For she said, 'The World in general knows There's nothing so good for a Pobble's toes!' The Pobble who has no toes, Swam across the Bristol Channel; But before he set out he wrapped his nose, In a piece of scarlet flannel. For his Aunt Jobiska said, 'No harm Can come to his toes if his nose is warm; 'And it's perfectly known that a Pobble's toes 'Are safe, -- Provided he minds his nose.' The Pobble swam fast and well And when boats or ships came near him He tinkedly-binkledy-winkled a bell So that all the world could hear him. And all the Sailors and Admirals cried, When they saw him nearing the further side,-- 'He has gone to fish for his Aunt Jobiska's Runcible Cat with crimson whiskers!' But before he touched the shore, The shore of the Bristol Channel, A sea-green Porpoise carried away His wrapper of scarlet flannel. And when he came to observe his feet ( Formerly garnished with toes so neat ) His face at once became forlorn On perceiving that all his toes were gone! And nobody ever knew From that dark day to the present, Whoso had taken the Pobble's toes, In a manner so far from pleasant. Whether a shrimp or a crawfish gray, Or a crafty Mermaid stole them away -- Nobody knew; and nobody knows How the Pebble was robbed of his twice five toes! The Pobble who has no toes Was placed in a friendly barque, And they rowed him back, and carried him up To his Aunt Jobiska's Park. And she made him a feast at his earnest wish Of eggs and buttercups fried with fish;-- And she said,-- 'It's a fact the whole world knows, 'That Pobbles are happier without their toes.'
11.
This is Remembrance Day The rain’s falling down Wearing November grey We uncover lost ground The wind it is getting cold There’s a knife in the air And when it all turns to snow a new world’s lying there They say the older that you get, the better you used to be Nothing improves the past like time, looking forward to a memory I just get better, I hear the sound of no hands clapping I remember things before they even happen After remembrance day the future is new Put your hands in the cold cold clay make something new Snow is a wedding dress Mother earth father sun Time will take it off again, and make a new one They say the older that you get, the better you used to be Nothing improves the past like time, looking forward to a memory My eyes just keep improving I can see over life’s wall Even though it’s true I can’t get focused straight at all So glorious oh, So glorious oh…
12.
Skunk Song 03:40
I want to tell you a story about a friend of mine he was having himself a real tough time he was feeling low and he couldn't get to sleep because he smelled so sour and he wanted to smell sweet yeah, there was a reason he stunk that was because he was a skunk now they say a skunk smells his own smell first well he always did but he thought it was the worst and soon he started hating himself and he decided to seek professional help yes he was almost in a state of paralysis when he went to see the owl for some pyschoanowlysis now Mr. Owl tried out the best of his knowledge that he'd learned from his father and picked up in college but when my friend the skunk rose up off that bench he was still in the grips of that horrible stench yes he was really in a rut so he bought a big bottle of essence de peanut and he rubbed it on his body till he filled every pore and lo and behold he didn't stink any more oh he was so happy just strutting down the trail everybody mistook him for a peanut with a tail no longer could the animals recognize his scent and he was trampled to death by a hungry elephant now that's a lesson we all should learn if you're a fire you're made to burn if you're a sponge you're bound to drink and if you're a skunk you're made to stink one ain't three and three ain't two you can't be me and I can't be you the only thing we can hope will save us is to learn to sing with the voice God gave us you got one life you ain't got nine so let me in yours and I'll let you in mine and when we sing lets sing differently cause if we're all the same there'll be no harmony yes that's a lesson to understand you can't clap with just one hand if you're an eye you're made to wink but if you're a skunk you'd better stink

about

Sandy played in a band with Randy Sutherland in the 80's, and then when Sandy moved to the east coast of Canada, Randy and his partner Sarah Farquhar (Sandy's second cousin once removed) would send audio letters from their late night kitchen. The audio letters included chatter, crack and songs, reels, Morris dance tunes, old time-y tunes, utter nonsense, poems, new words (like "pronoia") and to our constant delight, some of Randy's original pieces. Lots of Randy's original songs!

So Zara grew up listening to these late-night-in-the-kitchen audio letters, and absorbing the music (and the charming and delightful ethos shared by those two too!). We got to hear news of the family, sometimes their kids sang tunes, played sax on some tracks... We received audio letters for years, and we loved to learn the tunes to sing at home.

A few years ago, we decided we'd like to record some of them, and Randy said OK, so we gathered a bunch of the hottest musicians in Saint John New Brunswick and over the following 3 or 4 years, converged on Grant Heckman's studio every so often and put these together with great pleasure!

Randy has released his own songs, i think you can still hear some of them on his site: randysutherland.blogspot.com/2003/01/song-list.html

We are so grateful to:
Grant Heckman, for recording and gently guiding this process with his wisdom and kindness; for his excellent guitar licks; for his production sensibilities and his patience;

Tim Davidson, for playing bass on a number of tracks and mixing and mastering these works; for his support of the project and assistance deciding which sounds were essential and which were not;

Bill Preeper and Jessica Rhaye, for singing our silly ideas with their excellent voices; their fun good nature and sweetness;

Clinton Charlton; for his full-on enthusiasm; for his percussion skills- he played all the drums on tracks with percussion, and found the perfect groove for each.

MJ BoKay, for helpful ideas and gentle prodding.

(and of course, to Randy and Sarah, for sending these late-night-in-the-kitchen audio letters over the years; for sharing the love and warmth and music from their house; for introducing us to so much fun new music over the years! The letters are on cassette tapes, and we still have them... and a cassette player! )

All these folks offered such great support to this project, and they in turn have come to love Randy's work as well.

We hope you do too!

credits

released October 11, 2020

cd and band camp layout: Jessica Rhaye Design
photos by MJ Bokay
drawings and artwork by Fin BoKay

recording engineered by Grant Heckman at Uncle Robert's Studio in uptown Saint John
mixed and mastered by Tim Davidson, Ripple Effect Music

Zara BoKay- vocals
Sandy BoKay- vocals, guitars, banjo, mandolin, bass
Clinton Charlton- all the drums
Grant Heckman, lead electric guitar, baritone guitar, lap steel and slide guitars, bass, b/u vox
Tim Davidson- bass
Bill Preeper- b/u vox and accordion on Right Wrong Things
Jessica Rhaye- b/u vox
Loki BoKay Virtue - b/u vox
Galileo BoKay Virtue -b/u vox

produced by Grant Heckman, Sandy BoKay, Zara BoKay and Tim Davidson et al, kinda

Words and lyrics by Randy Sutherland (C)
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The BoKays Rothesay, New Brunswick

the BoKays aren't slow and they aren't fast. They're kinda half-fast.

It's family band, sort of. Sandy is the guitar player and sings a bit, Zara is the good singer. We dream of playing tunes with the grand/kids someday. That's really what it's all about.

We recorded this album full of tunes by our favourite song-writer and good friend Randy Sutherland.

Hope you like it.
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